Friday, November 29, 2013

Zone Conference Notes

Friday, 29 November 2013, Chris's notes from Area Senior Couples Zone Conference,
Africa Southeast Area, Johannesburg, South Africa
Elder Carl Cook of the Seventy and Sister Cook spoke to us.
They first told us a story about the Kananga Stake up in the Democratic Republic of the Congo.  Several years ago, a brother showed up at the church/mission offices in Kinshasa and identified himself as a member of the church and he wanted to pay the tithing for all the members in the Kananga area.  The mission president asked the brother where he was from.  After the brother explained, the mission president said that he didn’t even know we had members in that area.  “Oh yes, President, we have many members in that area.”  The mission president eventually was able to organize an official branch in the area.  The members had moved to this area to escape persecution from others so they could worship in peace.  The area is so remote, that the mission president could not send any full-time missionaries to the area.
Within a few years, there was a second branch and then a third.  There were still no full-time missionaries; limited priesthood contact from outside Kananga; and no church funds were sent to the area for buildings, budget, or welfare.  In May 2011, a stake was organized in Kananga.

Elder and Sister Cook attended the Kananga Stake Conference last month.  From the nearest airport, it took them two days of travel to reach the site of the stake conference.  The stake had rented an old movie theatre for the conference.  There was not enough room for the 2360 people who showed up (89% attendance).  The primary sat outside in a lean-to; well-mannered and reverent.  Many had arrived an hour early to the conference and so many of the children had been sitting there reverently before the meetings began.  There are currently 11 wards in the Kananga Stake.  They still have never had any full-time missionaries.  The missionary work is handled by the ward missionaries.  112 missionaries have served full-time missions from the Kananga area.  Only 12 have remained in the stake after their missions as the others have left for the big cities to receive a higher education.

At this stake conference, 49 prospective elders were sustained to receive the Melchizedek Priesthood.  22 brothers were sustained to become High Priests.  Elder Cook asked the Stake President how they handled the welfare in the stake.  The stake president responded that they have no welfare expenditures.  He responded that all the members have families to help them. [Their solution is reminiscent of the Church Handbook – which talks about family first].

Elder Cook went on to explain that the growth rate of the church in Africa is faster than we can build meetinghouses.  In Zimbabwe, the church is doubling every 3 years.  For our area (Southeast Africa Area) we will reach 250,000 members by 2016.  For our area, we expect to double our members in 8 years.

Elder Cook cited the talk from Elder Packer from the April 2000 conference; just after the new conference center was constructed.  Elder Packer told a story about a man who obtained a beautiful pearl.  He had a beautiful box built for the pearl.  As he showed others his treasure; more people commented on the box than on the pearl itself.  The man was very disappointed.  Elder Packer asked the Saints attending the conference to focus on the pearl (the messages of the conference) rather than the box (the new conference center).
Elder Cook then cited Mosiah 18:7.  The saints gathered at the waters of Mormon and were taught the gospel.  We do not need to build church buildings to feel the spirit and become converted.  In fact, a study conducted in our area showed that the growth of the ward or branch was not affected by whether a congregation met in a leased facility or a church owned building. v. 21: It is not how much we know, but what we “become”.

In the DR Congo, after the colonists left and they gained their independence, the land was divided up into parcels for the residents.  When the church attempts to acquire enough land to build a church, they must acquire between 15 to 20 contiguous parcels.  Title records are difficult to research and may not be reliable.  It can cost us up to $1 million to simply acquire land for a chapel and take years to conclude the transactions.  (The cost of the notary alone to certify the purchases is about $30,000.)  Once we build a chapel, we need 24/7 security for the property.  Because of squatter rights, if squatters move onto a property when it is not occupied, they immediately have legal rights.  The area of the Kananga Stake is in an area called the Kasai.  The Kasai has no building materials: no cement and no lumber.  Any materials must be shipped in and are very expensive.

In the Africa Southeast Area, we are trying to focus on the pearl and not the box.  We may no longer build American style meetinghouses; if we build, we will build meetinghouses suitable for the saints in that area.  Elder Cook was visiting a branch in Madagascar.   On Sunday, he observed that the attendance had far outgrown their member-built building.  He asked the branch president how we as a church could help the branch.  The branch president responded that all they needed was 30,000 bricks.  The members had already drawn up the plans and knew exactly how to expand their branch building to meet their needs.  Elder Cook said “I think we can do that.”  The members were willing and expecting to do all the labor themselves.  [Madagascar has an abundance of locally produced bricks.  So, the members’ request was a simple and inexpensive one.]

Elder Cook met with a branch president where the church built a new “American style” chapel.  After the chapel was built, the chapel was over-filled with investigators.  The branch president said they came to see what the “rich” church could do for them.  A few weeks later, the disappointed investigators stopped coming.  Sometimes the churches we build are “too rich” for the area.  Sometimes too much focus is given to the box, instead of the pearl as mentioned in Mosiah 18.

The Area Presidency met with Elder Perry and a President of the Seventy.  His council for our meetinghouse challenge was to “consider unique and even one of a kind solutions.”  The Church will entertain options other than building or renting.  Our 5 area meetinghouse goals (which have been approved) now include:

1) Adequately house the saints at the lowest necessary cost and present an image of reverence and dignity in the community (appropriate for the area).
2) Members should be able to get to the nearest building within 30 minutes (which for much of our area means “walking”.)
3) The ideal ward will have between 200 and 300 members with a sacrament meeting attendance of 100-125.
4) The ideal stake will have 6-8 units
5) Each stake will have 1 meetinghouse able to accommodate 170 in a meeting; other buildings will be rented or leased.

Elder Bednar recently visited our area.  He was very supportive of our area plans.  He commented and said, “Don’t complicate these people’s lives”.  Start right, keep it simple, and it’ll stay right.  We are trying to focus on the pearl and simplify the box.

We are excited for the growth of the Church in Africa.  The gospel blesses people’s lives; makes families whole, and helps us become converted sons and daughters of our Heavenly Father.  I testify these things are true.

Thursday, November 28, 2013

My Thanksgiving Song

                                                                
                                                                                 
           A Light For All Mankind  
                                    By Debbie King                                         
        I’m thankful for the morning sun
        Which or’ a distant hill doth rise
        Amid the myriad choirs of song
        To greet the brilliant glorious one.

         To fill the ends of earth with light                 
         For all mankind with eyes to see
         The beauty of the earth by day
         A light to guide me on my way.

        And through the night when darkness comes 
        And choirs of song, their tune doth fade
        Reflected light of lesser hue
        And whispers softly guide me through.      

        I’m thankful for the Eternal Son
        Who or’ a distant hill did rise 
        Amid angelic choirs of song
        To greet the brilliant glorious One.                    
          

Saturday, November 23, 2013

Ennerdale Branch

About 45 km south of Johannesburg is the small community of Ennerdale.  Debbie and I had an opportunity to visit the Ennerdale Branch of the Church today.  The building consists of 5 temporary structures clustered together. They contain classrooms, bathrooms, a chapel, branch president and clerk’s offices, and a kitchen.  In the courtyard (open to the sky) is the baptismal font.  There is a nice lawn surrounding the building.  The lawn also serves as the parking lot.

A unique feature about this property, is that this cluster of buildings and parking lot only occupy about a third of the land.  The local members received permission to turn the rest of the property into a garden for raising fruits and vegetables.  This allows the members to supplement their food supply as well as learn to be self-sufficient.

When we arrived at the Ennerdale Branch, the young men were holding a car wash to raise funds for camp.  We appeared to be their only customer.  I believe that the Lord directed us to show up on this particular day just to bless their lives.  We asked them how much they were charging to wash our car, they replied 25 Rand (about $2.50).  5 young men went to work on our car.  (We just had our car washed a few days earlier.)  Not only did they wash the car, but they vacuumed the inside including every crevice they could find, wiped down the upholstery, removed the car mats and vacuumed them and shook them out, they polished our tires with shoe polish, wiped down all the door frames (even the areas you can only see when the car door is open), washed the windows, shined the chrome, took out the trunk (boot) mat and vacuumed it, cleaned the inside of the trunk, and then offered to wash the engine (but I declined).  We gave them the 25 Rand plus a 75 Rand tip.  THAT WAS THE BEST CARWASH EVER!  These young men know how and want to work.  Unemployment is high and cruel.  I’m pretty sure that our contribution may be all they earn today due to the location being on a side road deep in the community with almost no drive by traffic and also most of the local members cannot afford to pay for a car wash.  The young men invited us to come back next Saturday for another car wash. :)  


We toured the garden area.  It was amazing in that we saw a wide variety of healthy plants including cabbage, corn, chard, brussel sprouts, lettuce, potatoes, and carrots.  They have built a large greenhouse so they can grow crops year round.  From somewhere, they acquired some wooden pallets.  They have salvaged the wood and built raised boxes for the garden.  What a wonderful project that I’m sure causes the Saints to grow close together as a Branch.


Our visit to see the saints in Ennerdale was inspiring.  They are self-sufficient, energetic, hardworking, and have big smiles.  They are following the example and pattern set for us by our Savior, Jesus Christ.

Friday, November 22, 2013

Beautiful Children

These beautiful children were enjoying the pretty day outside the office grounds today.
"Look at those beautiful children.  Oh I wish I could take a picture of them." says I.  
"Go take one." Says He.  
"May I take your picture?"  Says I.
 What cute squeals of laughter were heard as they saw their photo on our camera. :)

Children admiring the Koi pond

Isn't her hair just amazing!


Poor little guy.
He cheered up a bit when he saw his picture.




Saturday, November 16, 2013

Aunt Shirley has joined my Dad in Heaven

                                Yesterday my very sweet Aunt Shirley passed away.

Debbie's Dad                           Chris's Sister, Tamara                            Debbie's Aunt Shirley                     
These dear family members have passed away all in the last few weeks.  They lived good lives and their final years were filled with illness and suffering.  We miss them, but I can only feel happy for the reunion they are having in their new heavenly home.

I wrote a poem when my Grandmother passed away:

                          AGELESS
                                               by Debbie King

I shall always remember my Grandmother dear
Sweet memories she's made for us year after year.

She's been so much older than I, here on Earth
But only because of the time of her birth
For someday I shall stand by her side once again
Not as youth next to elderly but long time friend.

See we're all young in heaven.  That's what we've been told
Though there's something so special about a person who's old.
We shall leave age to other worlds planning to be
As we all will take on immortality.

I can't wait to see my sweet grandmother dear
We'll be youthful together year after year.

Family Time Zones

                                                  Our family is spread across the globe!

King Family Time Zones

SLC Group photo

International Auditors Training
We just got this group photo from our Auditors Training in SLC.  If you click on it to enlarge it, you can see where I've marked individuals.  We were so thrilled to bump into our dear friends, Jay and Rosalind Sorensen who will be serving in the Caribbean, Elder & Sister Smith, who will be serving in Ghana, are Mirium Squires parents and then we met the Claytons who will join us here in the Joburg office next month.

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Safely in Porto Alegre

Andrea with President & Sister Wright in Brazil
Andrea has arrived safely!  I wrote a letter to the mission asking if she had made it safely and here is a reply from Sister Wright:

Good morning Dear Sister King,
I was actually going to call you directly this morning and let you know that we had a delightful visit with you amazing daughter yesterday.  Thank you for making contact with me!  She looks great.

She is incredible!  And she shared with me about the faith and diligence of her parents and her siblings.  We met her at the airport, she met her companion, and we took her to her area.  For now, she will be serving in Porto Alegre.  She was the last of 5 flights that arrived yesterday.  Our Pday is Monday and she will write more than. 

Elder and Sister King, your story has inspired us and strengthened our faith.  We feel very blessed to have your daughter serving with us!  She is very prepared and has great faith and diligence.  If you ever have any questions or concerns, please write immediately.  This is my personal email and I will respond immediately. Could you also tell me our time difference?  I usually call the parents when the missionaries arrive, but neither she or I knew how far apart our time was.  

May the Lord bless you for your selfless service and sacrifice!
Warmest regards,

Sister Wright 

Sunday, November 10, 2013

Seeing Andrea off to Brazil



Andrew and Hannah drove up to Albany and then rode with Victor & Jennifer into NYC.  Saturday they all went to dinner together and the next morning they went to Andrea's ward for church.  What a great send off to Andrea just before she leaves for Brazil.  What a kind hearted President Morgan for giving permission for this family visit.

Andrea, Jennifer and Andrew

Here is Jennifer's description:
Seeing Andrea as a missionary was an incredible experience. Not many people get the opportunity to see "their" (parents, siblings, or children as) missionaries in action: I have always known Andrea was strong, but I couldn't otherwise have known that she is -this- strong.  When Andrea taught and testified about principles of the Gospel, she spoke with tremendous strength and conviction. As we sat at Olive Garden Saturday night, Andrea, fully enjoying her time with us but also watching the time, finally said it was time for them to share a message with us. She challenged us to watch for miracles in our daily lives and to write them down.
She hasn't been in NYC for long, but on Sunday we could see that she has very obviously already made a difference in her ward and with those she has helped teach. The ward was sad for Andrea to leave. One man, who Andrea has helped teach, very eagerly introduced himself to all of us -- her family and loved ones -- and couldn't stop singing her praises. Since it was her last Sunday in NYC, she had ward members handing her notes, cookies, and other gifts of love and appreciation. I think she has already made many life-long friends!


Twins Forever!

Saying bye to Jen


Saying bye to her twin brother, Andrew

Newcastle & Drakensberg

At the invitation of President Ngubane, President of the South Africa Newcastle District, we were assigned by the Area Audit Committee to provide financial and audit training to the Newcastle District. The visit included training the district presidency, the district clerk, branch presidencies and branch clerks and the district auditors.

These were wonderful brethren.  They were enthusiastic and humbly recognized some things they would like to do different.  President Ngubane closed the meeting, bearing testimony and encouraged change.  He said, "Brethren, we've been bad."  Chris quickly said "No, president, you have not been bad."  I loved President Ngubane's reply, "Elder King, Let us be bad, so that we can be good." His comment to the members was that there was room for improvement in the district.  What a great man.  Sincere and humble and pure hearted.
Newcastle

We stayed at Avalon.  They had an OH SO Beautiful garden!

We stayed in the Loyalty room.
Some other room names were
Love, Peace, Kindness, Patience, Goodness, Compassion, Humility etc.



A few months ago we went to the Drakensberg Boys Choir and decided it would be fun to go a day early to Newcastle so that we could see Drakensberg Mt area.  We stayed the night and went on a nice hike the next morning.  We didn't hear the Boys Choir sing but we sure did hear bird choirs!  It was a beautiful area and the trees were "alive with the sound of music!"





Here is one of the interesting discoveries when we stayed in a room with at thatch roof at The Cavern (Drakensburg Mountains) on our trip to Newcastle.  Did you know that worms live in the thatch?  We were advised by the management not to be alarmed because they are harmless.  Sure enough, the next morning there was a very small red worm in bed with us.  It may sound “exotic” to sleep in a grass shack; but I’m happy to report that the bed bugs don’t bite.  And, that the early bird gets the worm.


We had a visitor to our flat today.  There are no screens on any of our windows.  We are on the fourth floor so insects are fortunately rare (but pigeons are not).  Today we had this beautiful black and yellow beetle crawling around our flat.  It reminded me of our first car – a VW - short and squat and not very fast.

And this was another visitor today.  I shooed two of these out of the kitchen...2nd time and probably not the last ha ha.  They sit on the ledge outside the kitchen and come in the window.  Fortunately they are very smart because they don't panic and flap around when I walk in the kitchen, they just go back out calmly.  Quite beautiful birds.  I found this picture on line.

Saturday, November 2, 2013

Grandpa's Shoes are on a Mission!


There's a cute poem about an old shoe that became home for Goldfinches:


Grandpa's shoes cradle love, 
old made new for a home of love.  
Now a crew of gorgeous loves 
are stuck like glue to their beloved;
grandpa's shoe filled with beauty thereof.






While visiting family last month, I mentioned a story Sister Reber told us about a young African missionary at the MTC who was walking funny.  Sister Reber asked him about it and he told her that just before he left on his mission, his family gathered to see who’s shoes would fit this elder the best.  Although the shoes were too small, his uncle’s shoes were closest to the size of his foot and so his kind uncle donated his own shoes to his nephew for his mission.

Because this story touched the heart of my mother and my sisters-in-law Brenda and Karen, the day before Chris & I headed back to Africa they gave us shoes that belonged to my dad and two of my brothers. They also gave us some shirts and even a suit to bring back with us.  On Thursday we delivered them into the hands of the MTC president so I can now officially say to my children:  
                                                        Grandpa's shoes are on a mission! :) 
They are at the MTC awaiting their call.  Whether it be Pretoria, Capetown, Congo or Zambia, somewhere in Africa a beautiful African missionary will march for the Lord, sharing the gospel in Grandpa's shoes.


Grandpa's shoes & uncle's shoes

 "How beautiful are the feet of them that preach the Gospel of peace, and bring glad tidings of good things!"  Romans 10:15